About Me

I am Carole D. Monteiro, a Certified Counsellor and Coach dedicated to supporting 40+ mums with a little one who are navigating the emotional, physical, and identity shifts of motherhood and midlife at the same time.

When I became a mother at 42, I realised just how little support existed for women like us – women who are thoughtful, capable, and accomplished, yet suddenly thrown into a season that feels overwhelming, tender, disorienting, and profoundly transformative.

I understand the quiet exhaustion of holding so much:
the mental load, the identity changes, the hormonal shifts, the constant juggle, the pressure to stay strong, the longing for calm, and the desire to still grow as a person – all while raising a little one you love more than anything.

My work blends counselling, coaching, and gentle, practical tools to help you reconnect with yourself, find steadiness again, and build rhythms that support your energy, your wellbeing, and your evolving identity. I offer a compassionate, judgment-free space where you’re not asked to be perfect – only honest, supported, and human.

My mission is simple:
to help you feel like yourself again, even in the busiest, most tender season of your life — and to rise into the woman you’re becoming, with calm, clarity, and confidence.

My Story

As a first-time mother over 40, I faced profound challenges I never expected. From the overwhelming changes to my body, balancing a demanding career, and navigating the emotional shift into motherhood, I found myself struggling to maintain a sense of self.

I realised there wasn't enough support for women like me – mothers who want to embrace the joy of motherhood while also caring for their own well-being, both physically and emotionally.

After the birth of my son, at 42 years old I felt isolated, unsure how to manage the new demands of motherhood while maintaining my professional identity and personal happiness. Through trial, reflection, and creating practical strategies, I was able to regain balance, confidence, and a sense of calm.

This experience led me to develop programmes to help other first-time moms facing similar challenges – those who want to thrive not just as mothers, but as women.

I now dedicate myself to guiding women like me, providing the support, tools, and community that I wished I had during my own journey. Together, we can navigate this beautiful, challenging path and blossom both in motherhood and in life.

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